Imagine believing that aging is a gift, that you can live with vitality, free from limitations imposed by society or inner expectations. Imagine making decisions that open you to self-designed possibilities that support your comfort and happiness. YOU can own that optimistic edge which helps you resolve challenges and connects you to people of all ages and walks of life.

Fear of aging is insidious, hidden, and often not talked about openly. Unfortunately, avoidance of the topic can lead to personal conflict. It can be difficult to change your perspective about aging because of long-standing institutionalized discrimination. These fears are often internalized (turned into your beliefs about yourself), and seek to keep you down.

Pat Sanborn is an expert in the field of “aging successfully.” She has mastered the ability to identify internalized stuck places inside of you and artfully reconstruct them.


One to one coaching is perfect for you if you prefer direct, individual, and face-to-face interaction. This is where transitions happen personally, quickly, and privately in an office, private home, or via telephone (preferably Skype).

Together we will work on goals to enhance your vision of fearless aging while minimizing the obstacles that stand in your way of reaching those goals.



from 2-hours to 6-weeks

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”
— Alice Walker

Workshops may be a great fit for you if you prefer to interact with your peers. You will discover a variety of perspectives that may be different from you own.

 Learn to take action using tools that increase your awareness of what may be stunting your vision of aging. You will develop new skills to address these fears and create new goals for a plan for fearless aging. You may consider new options for growth and healing by connecting and sharing your story with others.

A two-hour introductory workshop will provide plenty of inspiration to get you started. This six week course includes audios, a workbook and a SKYPE session that supports your path to chose courage over fear of aging. 

“…This information is so important that more people have to hear it…”
— C.A., a seminar participant


Learning new ideas can come from many sources; it is extremely helpful to hear a variety of voices and messages from a wide range of development stages in the aging process. Pat speaks from her own experience, offers unique insights, and asks the harder questions. Your curiosity will be stimulated and your need for information, satisfied.

Be sure to keep track of where Pat is speaking next; each presentation will have new inspirations you will not want to miss! Check out our calendar.

You will learn brand new perspectives that provide uplifting awareness of just how magnificent aging can be. If you have ever “turned a blind eye,” you’ll now want to approach aging with your eyes wide open. New choices will most definitely emerge, opening you to possibilities you did not know existed.

“I was extremely impressed with your information and inspiration. I had not heard your way of putting it across out there…” —B.K., Fearless Aging participant

If you’d like to invite Pat to come and speak, please check out her speaker sheet or click here to book her.



Our Facebook group is a private group where you can swap ideas with like-minded women. Pat will regularly sprinkle top-of-the-mind probing questions to aid your fearless aging journey. Check out our Facebook page and join our Fearless Aging group!